Articles About Motivation : the Best Motivator is Yourself

Motivation is a pushing spirit or energy change in a person that is characterized by the emergence of feelings and reactions to achieve goals. That is, in this life we ​​will always need motivation to do various things in achieving our goals.

Motivation is divided into various forms, there are people who are passionate and motivated because of money, there are also because of praise, there are also those who really want to share benefits and goodness. People can also be motivated because they want to follow the steps of achieving someone he likes for example like Mark Zuckerberg.

Usually, people who are always motivated will keep trying to step even run to pursue their dreams. Unfortunately, motivation is sometimes not present in us. Finally, negative things arise in everyday life, such as feeling lazy, sad, afraid, feeling inadequate and various other negative things. So we need a Motivator in our lives.

During this time we know a variety of motivators who can lead to a spirit of motivation in themselves with various semiar and training. The question is how long will the motivation arise in us? Is it forever? Only a moment is not it. Well, then who is the best Motivator who will always be able to motivate us at any time?

If you’re upset, for example because of love, what is usually done? Without realizing it, usually we will look for motivation from various motivators around us. There are those who confide in friends and hope to get a solution, there are also those who confide in Twitter hoping that someone is paying attention. When we meet with our friends, then confide in telling us how upset and sad we are to him. Then our friends usually will suddenly be wise and say, “Never mind, I’m sure you can get better”. Then suddenly there was motivation and enthusiasm to move on.

When finished venturing, there is usually a feeling of relief. But of course, our friends cannot be present beside us forever. When he comes home or separates from us. Does motivation stay alive? Apparently it began to fade and disappear, finally upset again. Because you want to get a feeling of relief again, usually continue to vent on the phone. Finish phone, feeling back relieved. One minute two minutes, ten minutes, feeling upset again appears. Finally, various ways we do to get motivation from our friends and still not make our hearts really calm. It actually makes us addicted to keep venturing wide everywhere, but it doesn’t really provide a solution.

So, if we only rely on motivation from the outside, while we are still confused, it will only be able to motivate us for a few moments. But if the motivation really really comes from within ourselves. So whenever we are sad, upset, upset, we can motivate ourselves whenever we want. Because the Best Motivator is Ourself.

    Edvan M Kautsar